Advent Thought For The Day: 23

December 23rd: Step Into Christmas

Christmas can be a testing time for families. We come together with open hearts and great intentions, but sometimes find it difficult to get along. It’s hardly surprising when we live such full-on, switched-on lives. Stepping into Christmas can be hard.

I freely admit I don’t have the longest fuse, especially when things don’t go my way. Sellfishness is a trap one falls into when one lives alone and it lays invisible until triggered by the wants and needs of others. I find it a challenge to switch from ‘me’ to ‘we’ at short notice. Christmas with all its expectations of perfection and harmony tests me to the limit: It’s the one element of the festivities I have yet to master.

It’s the one-offness of Christmas that catches us out. Propelled from the mundane into the extra-ordinary we may flounder. The decompression zone between the frenzied build-up and the occasion itself is brief – perhaps a day or two at most. It’s not easy to change mind-set and relax in such a short period of time.

The pressure to excel at Christmas is immense, but that’s not what it’s all about. It’s incumbent on us all to keep things in proportion, make allowances, keep the peace, give joy and generally smooth the way into the New Year. Today has been a wonderful day but I’ve faltered on occasion. With two days to go, I know I must try harder. TFG.

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18 thoughts on “Advent Thought For The Day: 23

  1. I’ve really been enjoying your advent calendar, so thank you for the daily missives and wishing you well for Christmas and the new year. Good luck with keeping that fuse unlit!

    Claudia x

    Sent from my iPad


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  2. As Brene Brown reminds us, ‘The magic is in the mess.’ In other words, all the usual trials and tribulations of life do not stop just because it is Christmas, but that is where the magic lies! (I’ll tag you in her instagram post, she explains it so much better!) And thank you for a very special day.

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  3. Realizing your shortcomings is the first step to conquering them. We all get tired and cranky this time of year. I bet you are hard on yourself. You are such a perfectionist. Relax, have a glass of wine or a tody and enjoy what ever happens this season. Cheers…

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  4. I too have really enjoyed your daily lead up to Christmas. I think you are a real hero to complete it with everything else you have to do. Have a wonderful Christmas.

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